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My main interests veer towards bondage, submission and domination, (I am quite happy as a top or
bottom; it really depends on my mood!) military fetishism, and extremely high-heeled boots. I
have always been a bit of a deviant and I'm proud of it. The one thing I can't stand is people
who think fetishism is something to be
ashamed of - there's no harm as long as you stick to the maxim, safe, sane and consensual. Irresponsible
players also annoy me - being a top is a great responsibility, power-play is something that taps into
deep emotional and psychological territory, and needs to be treated with the respect it deserves.
I am a great fan of fetish fashion, be it in traditional corsetery, gothic imagery, cyberpunky boots and make-up, elegant latex or good old-fashioned 50's cheesecake. As for fetish in and of itself, I can safely say I just don't talk the talk, I also walk the walk - but let's just say hat information is probably best discussed in a more private forum!